Please RSVP by July 1st, 2026. We kindly ask that you let us know as soon as possible so we can finalize our headcount with the venue and caterers.

The ceremony begins at 5:00 PM sharp. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early to find your seat and settle in. Doors will open at 4:30 PM.

Complimentary parking is available on-site at Gray Gables Estate and at the adjacent event parking. We recommend rideshare options if you plan to enjoy cocktails.

These recommendations are based on proximity to the venue and ease of access to the main highways. We have included options for those coming from different directions and preferences. You are welcome to stay where you like and explore Portland. If you are feeling adventurous, McMenamins offers a unique PNW experience.

Closest to the venue and if you are coming from the south

These locations are close to I-205 and the venue is a straight drive up 99E.

• Best Western
• Holiday Inn

Flying in or coming from the north

These locations are close to the PDX airport and about a 30 minute drive to the venue.

• LaQuinta
• Embassy Suites by Hilton
• Aloft by Marriott

Adams Side

If you would like to stay near Alan, Bart, Jack, and Diane, there is a McMenamins nearby them. This location is an hour drive from the venue. The locations near the airport offer a good middle ground between the venue and the Adams' Household.

Lightfoot Side

We recommend the Best Western and Holiday Inn that are linked above. These locations offer a good middle point between the venue and the Bernardi household.

Polished and put-together.
Dresses, skirts, blouses, dress pants, or nice jumpsuits are all great choices!
Suits or separates, dress pants with button-ups are perfect, with blazers or ties as an optional (but encouraged!) touch.
Please avoid wearing jeans, sneakers, or t-shirts.
Examples